I said goodbye to my South African girlfriend and one-year-old son and left the country

With anti-migrant sentiment escalating in South Africa, Malawian John Allen threw some clothes in a bag, said goodbye to his South African girlfriend and their one-year-old son, and left to catch a bus out of the country.

He has now been waiting in a makeshift camp in the city of Durban for four days with thousands of other people, hoping to depart before June 30, an unofficial deadline set by anti-immigrant groups for all undocumented foreigners to leave.

Although the government has not condoned the deadline and condemns the violence, it has been criticised by other African states and civil society groups for failing to stamp it out.

“The reason I would like to stay is that I feel bad for my child. He’s too young. When I’m gone, who’s going to support him?” said Allen, 30.

The child’s mother, who is South African, only earns about R500 a week as a cleaner, but Allen had been earning four times that doing contract work for a manufacturing company, although he was undocumented.

As anti-immigrant protests surged in recent weeks, some of the foreigners in his neighbourhood were beaten up, he said, and now almost everyone has left.

“There are two options: I can lose my life, or I can leave,” he told Reuters, standing with other men amid piles of luggage, waiting for a bus.

Many migrants are still frantically trying to get out

At least hundreds of people remained at the giant, empty lot in Durban on Monday, where Malawians had flocked for safety ahead of protests due on Tuesday to mark the deadline.

Although they say they target only illegal immigrants, the vigilantes often don’t discriminate, and many migrants whose status is entirely legal have been attacked or had their property trashed.

Women and babies huddled together, sitting on cardboard or blankets, while aid groups handed out food and clothing. Some people have been here for a week, waiting their turn, as buses depart one after another.

The Department of Home Affairs has set up a tent where it is processing people for deportation, although authorities are currently focused on moving them out of Durban to a border post in Musina ahead of the protests, which many fear will turn violent, as past ones have.

No one here wanted to risk staying in South Africa beyond the deadline. Several said they were afraid they might be killed.

Amadou Awali looked dejected as he held up his phone, showing a photo of a toddler. He is leaving two young sons behind, and their mother doesn’t have the means to support them, he said.

“I’m worried for the children,” said Awali, who has been in South Africa doing plumbing and construction work since 2019.

He plans to wait a few months and then come back.

Gift of the Givers helping Malawians

On Monday, 29 June 2026, Gift of the Givers shared details about their repatriation bus service to support Malawian nationals’ journey home.

“Our teams have facilitated our first repatriation bus transporting Malawian nationals from Durban, KwaZulu-Natal to Blantyre, Malawi,” it said.

It explained that this was part of its humanitarian response while the South African and Malawian governments continue to coordinate voluntary repatriation efforts.

“Large numbers of people remain at the Durban Drive-In awaiting transport,” Gift of the Givers said.

“Many are among the most vulnerable, including mothers travelling with infants, who have endured long waits in challenging conditions.”

The organisation invested to help ensure a safer and more dignified three-day journey for Malawian nationals.

“Each passenger received essential travel support, including hygiene packs, snack packs, sandwiches, and 5 litres of bottled water,” it said.

“Gift of the Givers remains committed to supporting vulnerable individuals throughout their journey home with compassion and dignity.”